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And I’ve never met a writer worth reading who wasn’t a troublemaker in some way. The world often tries to define us and control our bodies.
To become a member of the Rumpus Book Club, click here. Jordan K: Oh, because Brian S usually does them, and Brian S is your screen name, so I’m confused. The book felt very much like a conversation with myself, trying to figure some things out, and inevitably, other books came into it, because that’s how I figure things out. And I took breaks where I just read novels, which are my pleasure, my first love as a reader. I was thinking a lot about what an essay is, and what it can be. I basically make a playlist for every essay; sometimes it’s just one song, or three songs, over and over and over. I haven’t listened yet, though, because mostly my two-year-old controls the tunes around here. I love getting tattoos, because very few things make me feel so present in my body. Marisa: Can we talk about the amazing cake your students baked for you? (I’m assuming you write in other forms for yourself, at least.) Kim: It was related in the sense that I usually get the urge to get tattooed when something big happens. In fact, if I let myself feel it, then I can harvest that energy and use it for other things.
Upcoming writers include Julie Buntin, Gabrielle Bell, Samantha Irby, Achy Obejas, and more. I have always trusted writers, books, thinkers, psychologists in that process. And I read the books that I teach, which are always the things that I love most: Baldwin, Maggie Nelson, Rebecca Solnit, Jesmyn Ward, Junot Díaz… I have stacks of essay collections next to my bed right now as I type this. Do you listen to music while you write, and if so, what music specifically for this book? I sort of find the emotional pitch of the piece, and then match music to it, and then the music becomes a shortcut to the feeling, so I can enter it and work anywhere: on planes, cafes, at work, the train… I don’t think I could live in the world without music, actually. I’ve been obsessed with music as long as I’ve been obsessed with books. Maybe that’s why I’ve always sought out extreme experiences; it forces me to be in a moment, to face the fact of my existing in that particular moment, in my body. I guess I aspire (and largely succeed) at being that in all ways. And then also, how being a teacher affects your work? With my first book, I was kind of incapable of accepting the love and attention and happiness of achieving something I’d wanted for so long. Maybe because I want to be present for it, to remember how it felt, what it meant. It’s like I had these layers of sadness and anxiety and detachment coating my anger, and when I peeled them away, ANGER.
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In the title poem, I write about the female body and the ways in which women have controlled their reproduction by any means necessary. My mother would tell you that I’ve always been a troublemaker. It didn’t alienate me; I was thinking more of the word expulsion itself, of that pushing out and away, and I definitely caught that issue of control in the poem.
I actually never considered that the title might alienate people, likely because I don’t ever worry about being palatable. And then you follow it with “Hija de la Chingada” about this girl who is surrounded by people trying to control her sexuality. I didn’t say that they’d WON, Marisa 🙂 Marisa: You weave a good amount of history and philosophy throughout the book. Or was this material you already had in your arsenal, because you’re a genius? Kim: I appreciated the anger on page 184-185 of your book when you mentioned the skepticism in the mental health field about historical trauma. It makes me really mad, actually, that that’s even a question. It’s hard for me to imagine someone winning that argument.Adult Swingers now, on the other hand, we can make fairly good estimates -- based on information coming from a variety of sources (including the Internet).Adult Swingers in the past, meeting another couple often took weeks of mailing photos and writing letters before the meeting actually took place.The sexually free are found in every community, and within every demographic.