So, if you’re attracted to transgender women, here are a few choice rules in dating one. Well, I’ll attest to that being the reason I keep running into the same type of guy. And it’s not that these men don’t mean well, it’s just that they’re hurting their chances by remaining ignorant to a person that they’re clearly attracted to.
Ex both see the relationship heading in the same direction and that his motivations are on the up and up.
They believe this is something everybody knows, that they're just following the rules.
What I've noticed, though, is that every person I've heard espouse this worldview was straight.
This rule is almost never stated or enforced among queer communities.
If you're gay, you will almost inevitably date a friend's ex at some point.
Grill yourself about what the attraction really is Dating a friend's ex-boyfriend isn't just playing with fire -- it's a bomb that can implode your whole social circle.
Your friendship may not survive, and if it does, it will never be the same.Take a gender studies course if you want the skinny on all things trans; we are not teachers.Unless, of course, your girl a gender studies teacher, then go right on ahead.Rule #5 It is usually understood that in order for us to get to know each other, we should talk about sports, politics, and other issues of the day. The only information I require from you is an indication of when you expect to have my daughter safely back at my house, and the only word I need from you on this subject is: "early".Rule #6 I have no doubt you are a popular fellow, with many opportunities to date other girls.After all, it's one thing if he was your friend's college flame and you bump into him 10 years later in an Italian cooking class and bond over lasagna.